Comments on: Regrets http://arambledlife.wordpress.com/2008/03/06/regrets/ Wed, 02 Apr 2008 19:14:46 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Jennifer http://arambledlife.wordpress.com/2008/03/06/regrets/#comment-170 Jennifer Thu, 06 Mar 2008 23:03:27 +0000 http://arambledlife.wordpress.com/?p=205#comment-170 Your post is incredibly sad, and yet these are words I hear over and over in my office. I can feel your deep sadness, and still I'm compelled to remind you how everything DOES happen for a reason, and in perfect order. But you already know that, don't you? It's just that you're IN the situation now, and you're finding it hard to be int he Now moment, when you're so focused on past and future moments. You think you did things without thinking them through, which is probably true on a conscious level. But subconsciously, you were 100% there. You are now living in a pool of GUILT because of other people, not because of what you felt, in THAT moment, in your heart. And while it may seem like that past has totally altered your future (and it has), how has it altered you for the better? And, what is there to learn in this moment? I wish you luck... Jennifer R. http://www.iChoosechange.com Your post is incredibly sad, and yet these are words I hear over and over in my office. I can feel your deep sadness, and still I’m compelled to remind you how everything DOES happen for a reason, and in perfect order. But you already know that, don’t you? It’s just that you’re IN the situation now, and you’re finding it hard to be int he Now moment, when you’re so focused on past and future moments.

You think you did things without thinking them through, which is probably true on a conscious level. But subconsciously, you were 100% there. You are now living in a pool of GUILT because of other people, not because of what you felt, in THAT moment, in your heart. And while it may seem like that past has totally altered your future (and it has), how has it altered you for the better? And, what is there to learn in this moment? I wish you luck…

Jennifer R.
http://www.iChoosechange.com

]]> By: Jess http://arambledlife.wordpress.com/2008/03/06/regrets/#comment-169 Jess Thu, 06 Mar 2008 22:50:03 +0000 http://arambledlife.wordpress.com/?p=205#comment-169 I'm really sorry that you're feeling so sad. I agree with you that there is no real way of knowing what the right decision is but that when you make a decision it usually becomes the right one because it steers your life in that direction. I'm sure that whatever decision you make will wind up being the right one. Good luck. I’m really sorry that you’re feeling so sad. I agree with you that there is no real way of knowing what the right decision is but that when you make a decision it usually becomes the right one because it steers your life in that direction. I’m sure that whatever decision you make will wind up being the right one. Good luck.

]]> By: extraordinarymommy http://arambledlife.wordpress.com/2008/03/06/regrets/#comment-168 extraordinarymommy Thu, 06 Mar 2008 22:47:41 +0000 http://arambledlife.wordpress.com/?p=205#comment-168 Most of the things that come to mind for me as I was reading your post might sound trite...but I hope you find peace with the decisions you need to make now. Without knowing any specifics, I am confident that the amount of energy you are putting into trying to make the best decisions for your family will lead you in the right direction. I clearly don't know you at all, but was sad reading your post and hope that you have the support of those you love. Good luck! Most of the things that come to mind for me as I was reading your post might sound trite…but I hope you find peace with the decisions you need to make now. Without knowing any specifics, I am confident that the amount of energy you are putting into trying to make the best decisions for your family will lead you in the right direction. I clearly don’t know you at all, but was sad reading your post and hope that you have the support of those you love. Good luck!

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